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Thursday, May 11, 2006
aJa AjA fIgHtiNg's PoLl oF D' mONth
"The hardest thing to do when u're in love is to let him/her go upon realising he/she doesn't love U anyomore ..." Anyone agree? Say ur view !!!
16 comments:
Anonymous
said...
Ehem ehem..
true..sounds true..inwardly true. those who have experienced it know how bitter it was goin thru da hardest moment.. but wud dat show how sincere u are, cuz by letting someone dat u love go for his happiness means dat a true sacrifice...?
well, rather than forcing someone to be with someone they did not love, wudnt it be better to let them go? in the end, it is not them who suffer, it's you. yet, it is hard and hurt to watch the one you love chose a different path than u. yes, only the one who'd experience the bitterness of letting go wud understand such pains...
to let him/her go is da hardest thing to be done...agree with all da opinion...but maybe it is da best way...coz Allah will show His mercy and Hikmah that no one of us know...that sacrifice by letting that person go will then be granted by Allah with sumthing that u'll never know...
just let the past go my fren...if u have the saddest things in life let it go...be the momories n try to build a new best life ever...that's what I've trying to do n will always to try it...n wait 4 da hikmah...
again only the person who had experienced it will understand better...
p/s:gud luck 4 ur final...all da best...chayok2,aja2 fighting....
love isnt a guarantee for u being happy. full of pains n miserables in it. LOVER HURTS PATIENCE PAYS.. After all, dis is life my dear, we give but dun expect to receive, we love but dun expect to be loved (unlike aja2 fighting's entry)
but always love urself before anyone else.. agree?
LOVE HURTS PATIENCE PAYS? ermmm heard that once b4.. where was it? (tapi d mana ya?)
out of all da opinions, i love oldskooldevil's...convincing and touching da soul..
but as muslim, sakuramalaya's thoughts shudnt be ignored..i bet da hikmah arugument cant be refuted at all.. but as a lay-ordinary-normal-slumber person like me (yg penuh dgn titik2 hitam nih)its not easy to regard sumting as wisdom.. but i always believe - things happened with a reason (but sumtimes not) hahahaha.. but sakuramalaya, thanks a lot..u've been a really gud fren for da past 7 years..long everlasting frenship
id luv to make different approaches to dat..- just let it be..no need to fell hurt wutsoever coz remember, - "luv the ones who loves u, not the one you luv, even he or she is the same person..." i just such a waste of time to be hurt for smone dats not worth for ur heart to feel hurt..just save the feeling to smone dat really luv you when he/she hurts u..to being left by someone dat luv u is more painful than dat..its kinda odd to say this but think bout it..(i also dunno wut im talkin bout, just ignore me,but dats wut i think n fell actually, the commonsense?nah, there's no such thing in physics..lol)
First of all, seek for concrete reasons why one of the parties want to let go. Psychologically, a person will leave if that person feels insecure and has been hurt way too many times by the person he/she loves.The way he/she will retaliate is to ask for a separation. But separation is not the only answer or exit, it should only be applied if there is no other solution after several attempts for reconciliations.It's hard to know what is going on in another person's mind because we can't read minds.A heart-to-heart talk, arranged in a conducive environment is crucial and both have to be open-minded to listen to each other's weaknesses.
Secondly, if the partner really wants a separation,the wish should be granted.Love is allowing your loved one to be in happiness.
Always remember, if one doesn't know where to turn to and feels so alone swimming in his/her sea of problems , look up,God is always there for you.
i respect all of da arguments put forward are thru. All i cud suggest to da blogger is dat - give ur self an ample time to glance da moments you have been thru. sometimes, decisions are taken at da wrong time based on da wrong advice. so never let urgency affect u in making decision..
all i cud ask from you, is to sit back, relax and think.. n always remember, da decision we choose today will affect our remaining future..
wow,nice n big Q there.yup,i agree with that.but i guess life must go on.and the best we can do is pray that Allah gives us both (us and that person) the partner who is best for us, dunia and akhirat. like in the istikharah prayer.
just wanna share da wording that I've got from sumone...
"selagimana awak masih sayang pada dia sama saja di hatinya masih sayang pada kamu...kekadang kita fikir saya saje yang bertepuk sebelah tangan...tapi andai perasaan itu ikhlas n jujur...percayalah di hatinya juga punya rasa yang sama..."
walaupun nampak macam novel kekadang mungkin ada benarnya...
agak bersetuju dengan semua pendapat...sekarang bukan masa bermenung dengan apa yang telah berlaku...jika benar betul mengasihi,berusahalah...mungkin ada jalan yang tak disangka...
teringat rangkap lagu siti dari album barunya lagu bertajuk cuba untuk mengerti...
abby n norman hakim membuktikan...kekadang perpisahan itu mengajar pasangan itu untuk lebih menghargai...mungkin yang meminta untuk dilepaskan hanya didesak oleh keadaan...seperti abby...tapi kesilapan norman ditebus dengan mengenepikan ego...lantas ini membuktikan mereka temui jalan keluarnya...
topic ni hangat lagi hot nampaknya...enjoying myself reading so many of opinion put forward by ur pals...
gud to have many people opinion n this prove that there r many people care about u...
whatever people say...always ask urself da best thing to do in ur life...
always being 4 u...n hope ur tense n stress will go on as the final go on...k...
perjalanan hidup ini masih panjang...anyway...if u have finish ur final...congratulation for winning da battle in exam...jangan tension2 lagi...fikir setenang2nya...cita2 dah digapai...apa pun jalan hidup yang dipilih ingat ada kawan yang sentiasa menyokong apa saja pilihan hidup zack idris selepas ini...
my fren...plan ur life properly...see ur priority...aja2 fighting...chayok2...
thanks dear. so long u and our frenship accompany me all da way long, i'll be fine.. u always be dere when i need u, though sumtimes i wasnt standing by ur side when u need me.. if da angel ever asked me wat i want in my life? and i simply said, a frenship n a fren like u..
shud u face any downturns in life, u can always get me as i'll be dere when u call my name..
sumone wrote this to me, whenever my name comes across ur heart, juz remember dat i'm thinking about u always forever
16 comments:
Ehem ehem..
true..sounds true..inwardly true.
those who have experienced it know how bitter it was goin thru da hardest moment..
but wud dat show how sincere u are, cuz by letting someone dat u love go for his happiness means dat a true sacrifice...?
well, rather than forcing someone to be with someone they did not love, wudnt it be better to let them go? in the end, it is not them who suffer, it's you. yet, it is hard and hurt to watch the one you love chose a different path than u. yes, only the one who'd experience the bitterness of letting go wud understand such pains...
mr anonymous n oldskool devil..
waaaaaaa my tears r brimming..
true true
regards
wassalam
to let him/her go is da hardest thing to be done...agree with all da opinion...but maybe it is da best way...coz Allah will show His mercy and Hikmah that no one of us know...that sacrifice by letting that person go will then be granted by Allah with sumthing that u'll never know...
just let the past go my fren...if u have the saddest things in life let it go...be the momories n try to build a new best life ever...that's what I've trying to do n will always to try it...n wait 4 da hikmah...
again only the person who had experienced it will understand better...
p/s:gud luck 4 ur final...all da best...chayok2,aja2 fighting....
true...absolutely true..
love isnt a guarantee for u being happy. full of pains n miserables in it. LOVER HURTS PATIENCE PAYS.. After all, dis is life my dear, we give but dun expect to receive, we love but dun expect to be loved (unlike aja2 fighting's entry)
but always love urself before anyone else.. agree?
ur_secret_admire,
LOVE HURTS PATIENCE PAYS? ermmm heard that once b4.. where was it? (tapi d mana ya?)
out of all da opinions, i love oldskooldevil's...convincing and touching da soul..
but as muslim, sakuramalaya's thoughts shudnt be ignored..i bet da hikmah arugument cant be refuted at all.. but as a lay-ordinary-normal-slumber person like me (yg penuh dgn titik2 hitam nih)its not easy to regard sumting as wisdom.. but i always believe - things happened with a reason (but sumtimes not) hahahaha..
but sakuramalaya, thanks a lot..u've been a really gud fren for da past 7 years..long everlasting frenship
anymore ideas, guys?
regards with love,
admin
id luv to make different approaches to dat..- just let it be..no need to fell hurt wutsoever coz remember, - "luv the ones who loves u, not the one you luv, even he or she is the same person..." i just such a waste of time to be hurt for smone dats not worth for ur heart to feel hurt..just save the feeling to smone dat really luv you when he/she hurts u..to being left by someone dat luv u is more painful than dat..its kinda odd to say this but think bout it..(i also dunno wut im talkin bout, just ignore me,but dats wut i think n fell actually, the commonsense?nah, there's no such thing in physics..lol)
Sir Wan...
First of all, seek for concrete reasons why one of the parties want to let go. Psychologically, a person will leave if that person feels insecure and has been hurt way too many times by the person he/she loves.The way he/she will retaliate is to ask for a separation. But separation is not the only answer or exit, it should only be applied if there is no other solution after several attempts for reconciliations.It's hard to know what is going on in another person's mind because we can't read minds.A heart-to-heart talk, arranged in a conducive environment is crucial and both have to be open-minded to listen to each other's weaknesses.
Secondly, if the partner really wants a separation,the wish should be granted.Love is allowing your loved one to be in happiness.
Always remember, if one doesn't know where to turn to and feels so alone swimming in his/her sea of problems , look up,God is always there for you.
If you love someone, let her go..if she is meant to be with you she will come back. After all, Allah knows best.
ermm,
i respect all of da arguments put forward are thru.
All i cud suggest to da blogger is dat -
give ur self an ample time to glance da moments you have been thru. sometimes, decisions are taken at da wrong time based on da wrong advice. so never let urgency affect u in making decision..
all i cud ask from you, is to sit back, relax and think.. n always remember, da decision we choose today will affect our remaining future..
pray hard as He knows best !!
Gud luck
hey zack idris,
I just wanna know ur final finding..loads of opinions given but we still want to know ur say...
do u want to let her go?
or stay with her?
stay or let go?
let go or stay?
desperate seeker.. hahahahaha
wow,nice n big Q there.yup,i agree with that.but i guess life must go on.and the best we can do is pray that Allah gives us both (us and that person) the partner who is best for us, dunia and akhirat. like in the istikharah prayer.
just wanna share da wording that I've got from sumone...
"selagimana awak masih sayang pada dia sama saja di hatinya masih sayang pada kamu...kekadang kita fikir saya saje yang bertepuk sebelah tangan...tapi andai perasaan itu ikhlas n jujur...percayalah di hatinya juga punya rasa yang sama..."
walaupun nampak macam novel kekadang mungkin ada benarnya...
agak bersetuju dengan semua pendapat...sekarang bukan masa bermenung dengan apa yang telah berlaku...jika benar betul mengasihi,berusahalah...mungkin ada jalan yang tak disangka...
teringat rangkap lagu siti dari album barunya lagu bertajuk cuba untuk mengerti...
abby n norman hakim membuktikan...kekadang perpisahan itu mengajar pasangan itu untuk lebih menghargai...mungkin yang meminta untuk dilepaskan hanya didesak oleh keadaan...seperti abby...tapi kesilapan norman ditebus dengan mengenepikan ego...lantas ini membuktikan mereka temui jalan keluarnya...
salam...
zack idris...
topic ni hangat lagi hot nampaknya...enjoying myself reading so many of opinion put forward by ur pals...
gud to have many people opinion n this prove that there r many people care about u...
whatever people say...always ask urself da best thing to do in ur life...
always being 4 u...n hope ur tense n stress will go on as the final go on...k...
perjalanan hidup ini masih panjang...anyway...if u have finish ur final...congratulation for winning da battle in exam...jangan tension2 lagi...fikir setenang2nya...cita2 dah digapai...apa pun jalan hidup yang dipilih ingat ada kawan yang sentiasa menyokong apa saja pilihan hidup zack idris selepas ini...
my fren...plan ur life properly...see ur priority...aja2 fighting...chayok2...
dis entry especially addressed to sakuramalaya,
thanks dear. so long u and our frenship accompany me all da way long, i'll be fine..
u always be dere when i need u, though sumtimes i wasnt standing by ur side when u need me..
if da angel ever asked me wat i want in my life? and i simply said, a frenship n a fren like u..
shud u face any downturns in life, u can always get me as i'll be dere when u call my name..
sumone wrote this to me,
whenever my name comes across ur heart, juz remember dat i'm thinking about u
always
forever
thanks a million, dear
regards
XXX
(MR AMERICA)
Absolutely true!
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